SPs and MPAs who date clients

[Asscream]

It seems that most SPs and MPAs are against dating clients. They treat their personal life and work separate.

By my calculations I think maybe 1-2 in 10 girls date clients.

How many girls do you know that have met their boyfriends through work?

 

[Justine2016]

It seems that most SPs and MPAs are against dating clients. They treat their personal life and work separate.

By my calculations I think maybe 1-2 in 10 girls date clients.

How many girls do you know that have met their boyfriends through work?

I would say it is more common then you think I would put the figure at 4 out of 10. Dating an SP or MPA in the prime of their career is very difficult unless you are very rich as they are accustomed to the money and gifts from clients. A lot of SPs and MPA at the end of their careers are looking for more financial security so are more open to dating clients as both the client and SP/MPA know of that they were a provider/client so their isn’t that element of secrecy that they have with a non client. The number of successful relationships I would say is 1 or 2 out of 10 as a lot of SP/MPA have a lot of mental baggage.

 

[Flyingfox]

The number of successful relationships I would say is 1 or 2 out of 10 as a lot of SP/MPA have a lot of mental baggage.

Agree. I saw a MPA outside the spa and gradually I became ears to her unhappy childhood, her family issues and her past boyfriends. I find out behind her smiling face to her customers, she has a very insecure mentality and thinks most people are trying to take advantage from her. That is why all these girls see quick money is their security.

 

[Barney_B]

It seems that most SPs and MPAs are against dating clients. They treat their personal life and work separate.

By my calculations I think maybe 1-2 in 10 girls date clients.

How many girls do you know that have met their boyfriends through work?

A date in which there is no financial compensation for one's time: Very little.

A date in which there is any financial compensation, even if there is no sex involve: I agree with @Justine2016 .

I have had a few dinners with SPs; however, I always make it clear that it's dinner and a conversation and not dinner and sex. The majority say yes. I think this is due to the fact that I typically ask when I become a regular and they feel comfortable with me. And perhaps, look forward to my booking. I make a suggestion as to where to meet, open to any suggestions of restaurant, and offer a ride/uber to and from if required.

I keep the convo to non-industry stuff. If she brings it up, I just listen.

Also, I am ok if they are not interested. I make it clear that although I am paying for dinner, I won't be paying for their time.

Since I hunt in the MILF age bracket, we appear to be a couple on a date, friends or co-workers. All above board. Not sure I could stomach more than 30 minutes with anyone under 30 as there would be zero in common. Perhaps longer if my dick was in her mouth.

 

[OG_funguy]

If you are average to above average looking, have good interpersonal skills, are not too old or too young and have a decent job, then in my experience 80-90% of the "single" MPAs working at semi-legit spas would be open to dating you (even some that are not single )...might take some time to build that connection but it's there if you want it. Again, I'm talking single Asian MPAs working at semi-legit spas...have very little experience with SPs and holistic girls.

 

[Red Flamingo]

I've heard of some Asian girls who used to do this, but charge much more than sugar girls.
Generally, Asian MPAs will not choose their boyfriends from among their guests.

 

[OG_funguy]

I've heard of some Asian girls who used to do this, but charge much more than sugar girls.
Generally, Asian MPAs will not choose their boyfriends from among their guests.

You need to get out more....

 

[Flyingfox]

Mind you, there are the so called "Single" MPAs who have husbands, boy friends and even kids at home. They really don't mind seeing their regulars outside the spa.

 

[TheWhiteShadow]

I've heard of some Asian girls who used to do this, but charge much more than sugar girls.
Generally, Asian MPAs will not choose their boyfriends from among their guests.

You sure about that???

 

[OG_funguy]

Mind you, there are the so called "Single" MPAs who have husbands, boy friends and even kids at home. They really don't mind seeing their regulars outside the spa.

We're not talking about seeing "regulars" outside the spa...the question was about dating

 

[Flyingfox]

We're not talking about seeing "regulars" outside the spa...the question was about dating

Seeing "regular" outside the spa - you meant having massage and service outside spa? Can we call this "outcall"?

No, I meant going out for dinner, going to movie and even going to spa - can I consider these "dating"? No monetary transaction.

 

[Chad Thundercock]

I have dated numerous dancers over the years.

Most all of these women are a mess, once they are away from putting on the happy to see you act at work.

 

[Balsafire]

If their career ended (big if), it’s a bit more normal.

Can you separate out her previous career though?

If she declines sex after a date, is it not crazy annoying?

 

[HandyAndy]

An MPA I met and dated was one of the most amazing women I’ve ever been with. Yup came with baggage but nothing I couldn’t handle, but then ghosted me out of nowhere. Then saw her one day with ex-boyfriend in tow and baby in a stroller. Whaddya gonna do
Have had ‘take-out’ with MPA’s who didn’t do FS in the spa, but still wanted me to F them, and personal hook ups with SP’s but wouldn’t call them dates, but I’d recommend making sure you both know which it is before hand. Also got take-out with an MPA I think is the hottest I’ve ever seen so I tried some domes with added delay lube so I could make the most of the evening and those damn things stopped me from getting fully hard. The FS was pretty bad on my part . She turned me down when I asked for a 2nd chance FML, can’t blame her really

 

[krayjee]

I've heard of some Asian girls who used to do this, but charge much more than sugar girls.
Generally, Asian MPAs will not choose their boyfriends from among their guests.

Man..I think so highly of you until I read this one. Seems like you know nothing about spa girls at all other than cuddling with your boys in here in SL thread.. You may be right if you are looking for young girls at Holistic spas like QQ. .

You will be surprised how many very lonely semi legit girls in here looking for dates. Lots of them have no family or real friends in here . Lots of them live in rented small rooms or basements and looking for someone who they can talk to or hang out with and make out with after work or on their day offs. Lots of ladies in their mid 30s to mid 40s are horny as hell and looking for someone to hang out with or have fun with or go for dinner with and most of the times they pay for it.. And some of them have husbands, boyfriends and kids. They don't care at all. It's just sex for them. .

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[aa84aa]

I would define dating when you're seeing her and you're not paying for any service, but like any other "regular" social interaction, you'll most likely pay for dinner, and if more does occur, tends to be of the civilian BB kind. If you're paying for it, let's be honest, and not call that dating - you're getting outcalls.

Clearly more than chemistry is occurring during sessions, opening the door for an actual relationship. Dating initially is more expensive, because there's a need to balance her lost opportunity cost when seeing you. As things progress, if you're connecting during spa hours, you're usually seeing her outside of her prime time windows, or getting quickies, or getting blow n' go, between appointments. Usually only possible if she's the boss, or has an understanding manager, as time/rooms are money.

Being ok and comfortable with dozens having their way with her per week (or day) is tougher to mentally and emotionally manage and navigate, but in accepting their work from personal, good returns can be had. Yet, there's an expectation of your exclusivity with her, and being ok with that, is harder. Variety, flexibility, and proximity, are reasons for hobbying. Ideally she understands that, and exceptional returns can be had, where you're accessing in ways you didn't know were possible.