Make A List

[Ursus]

Hi Folks,

Its been over one month since I booked a prostitute. And I have severely reduced my number of bookings over the past 3 years. This is despite an increase in income (not including, of course, the effects of the lockdown).

How did I do this? It's easy.

Make a list of the things you want to buy in the next 30 - 60 days. Also include the names of the stores that sells those item and their respective costs. The next time you have an urge to visit a hooker, consult your list and compare the cost of the hooker against the cost of the items that you want to buy. Then compare the value you would derive from buying an item on your list versus the value from booking the hooker. And keep doing this every time you get the urge. Every time, without exception.

Example:

Item Store Cost Pleasure Derived

7 piece metric wrachet Set Canadian Tire $49 8/10

New Toilet for Bathroom Home Depot $199 9/10

Sony Camera with Lens Amazon $900 9/10

Winter Tires Continental Canadian Tire $600 8/10

Swiss Chalet Meal Swiss Chalet $60 9/10

Winter Boots Walmart $50 7/10




Each time you get the urge to visit a hooker - @ $120 or $200 etc., you keep consulting your list and choose an item from that list. You then compare that item on your list to the cost of the hooker. You will see how little you desire hookers and how greatly you bring pleasure to yourself by buying the things that you want, and the things that give you long term value.

Stopping yourself from the addictive practice of booking hookers is just like any other addiction - smoking, drinking, drugs etc.

You have to expose yourself and train your brain to think differently, through positive repitition.

 

[xtc27]

Hey Ursus! Welcome back... not just cos I won the pool on yr return date....

Shoulda said hi earlier but lettin the angry guys express themselves 1st....

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...this technique? Not working 4 me... just amazes me sex= so cheap...

...amazes me that a nice looking woman will fuck then let me cum in her mouth for $100 tip... & less when they like me & want 2c me...

That stuff u wanna buy? So boring.

I cut down on beer & Starbucks & driving & TTC.... & have budget. Cdn tire? Different budget...

...let’s c what others say... mebbe when my testosterone fades a bit, I’ll agree w u...

 

[cupcrazy]

by not visiting a mpa during covid, you will save enough money to see Asian Angela or Sweet Alice for the entire week when the covid is done.

 

[curvluvr]

Finally a post that is worth reading!

Question: When you get the urge, what do you do after you consult the list? Do you go out and buy one of those items, or do you just use the list to compare the dervied pleasure and then put it away for the next urge?

 

[Deleted member 79939]

by not visiting a mpa during covid, you will save enough money to see Asian Angela or Sweet Alice for the entire week when the covid is done.

Where do they work
Or they rotate.

 

[tenchi]

Concur

 

[Ursus]

Finally a post that is worth reading!

Question: When you get the urge, what do you do after you consult the list? Do you go out and buy one of those items, or do you just use the list to compare the dervied pleasure and then put it away for the next urge?

Tonight, I went to Canadian Tire and spent $310.

Wrench Sets
Inspection Camera
Cooking Pots and Pans

So, the urge will subside for another 2 weeks or so.

And you just repeat and repeat until you no longer have the urge to book a prostitute.

 

[OG_funguy]

Tonight, I went to Canadian Tire and spent $310.

Wrench Sets
Inspection Camera
Cooking Pots and Pans

So, the urge will subside for another 2 weeks or so.

And you just repeat and repeat until you no longer have the urge to book a prostitute.

Dude, I thought you were a serious handyman. CT stuff is lower quality. Buy Snap-on, MacTools, Gray, Knipex, Wera, Wiha...

Their cookware is not that good either...

 

[Ursus]

Dude, I thought you were a serious handyman. CT stuff is lower quality. Buy Snap-on, MacTools, Gray, Knipex, Wera, Wiha...

Their cookware is not that good either...

I am not a good enough mechanic to use Snap On. Snap on is for people who work on cars every day.

I work on my cars once a month.

No point in buying super expensive tools.

I fixed my toilet last week:

My mastercraft wrenches did the job.
My Ryobi Drill also worked fine.

I am happy with entry to mid-level tools.

 

[Ursus]

by not visiting a mpa during covid, you will save enough money to see Asian Angela or Sweet Alice for the entire week when the covid is done.

Asian Angela ignores my texts and calls. Its been that way for close to one year.

Her fault, not mine. But that's the way it is.

Last time I saw her, it was just to give her a huge stack of cash.

I left after about 30 seconds because she kept lying to me. I find that to be boring, so whenever someone starts lying to me, I just walk away.

 

[DickSlinger]

This fuckin guy say he quit like 2 yrs ago and now he back at it. U cant make up ur mind like all thse other fuckin guys addicted to bein johns huh?

 

[curvluvr]

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I am not a good enough mechanic to use Snap On. Snap on is for people who work on cars every day.

I work on my cars once a month.

No point in buying super expensive tools.

I fixed my toilet last week:

My mastercraft wrenches did the job.
My Ryobi Drill also worked fine.

I am happy with entry to mid-level tools.

I licensed toolmaker once told me that Snap-On and Gray are good, but Mastercraft Professional is still pretty close.
Mastercraft's advantage is that, with the lifetime warranty on hand tools, if you suddenly break a wrench, you just go to the nearest Canadian Tire to get it replaced.
Replacing a Snap-On or Gray would be slower.

Other question:
But after buying your tools, won't you still feel that you want to get out there and be with a SP or MPA at some point?
Maybe in 2 weeks, but doesn't the urge become greater than the wish to buy stuff off your wish list?

 

[spincity]

Your system does work if you need stuff, i got rid of my stuff and replace it with pussy, often.

 

[Ursus]

I licensed toolmaker once told me that Snap-On and Gray are good, but Mastercraft Professional is still pretty close.
Mastercraft's advantage is that, with the lifetime warranty on hand tools, if you suddenly break a wrench, you just go to the nearest Canadian Tire to get it replaced.
Replacing a Snap-On or Gray would be slower.

Other question:
But after buying your tools, won't you still feel that you want to get out there and be with a SP or MPA at some point?
Maybe in 2 weeks, but doesn't the urge become greater than the wish to buy stuff off your wish list?

You just keep reinforcing the dopamine hits you get from buying the things you want, instead of getting the dopamine hits from booking the prostitutes.

It's like a smoker that wants to quit smoking. Everytime he gets the urge to smoke, he substitutes somethine else in place of the cigarettes.

I just had glasses made for me.
And I just bought tools.
And next week, I might endulge in shrimp or salmon at the grocery store.
And maybe even get myself a nice pair of shoes.

Whatever I do, I keep investing in myself instead of paying a sex-worker to pretend like me for the hour.

The more you do it, the more your brain sees the reward in paying yourself versus paying the sex-worker.

 

[OG_funguy]

You just keep reinforcing the dopamine hits you get from buying the things you want, instead of getting the dopamine hits from booking the prostitutes.

It's like a smoker that wants to quit smoking. Everytime he gets the urge to smoke, he substitutes somethine else in place of the cigarettes.

I just had glasses made for me.
And I just bought tools.
And next week, I might endulge in shrimp or salmon at the grocery store.
And maybe even get myself a nice pair of shoes.

Whatever I do, I keep investing in myself instead of paying a sex-worker to pretend like me for the hour.

The more you do it, the more your brain sees the reward in paying yourself versus paying the sex-worker.

I used to do this...had many hobbies. Now I have a basement full of shit. I decided to spend my discretionary money on "experiences" now...

 

[imhungry]

Id need a long list! Lately getting those urges a few times daily!!

 

[Dongo]

Other question:
But after buying your tools, won't you still feel that you want to get out there and be with a SP or MPA at some point?
Maybe in 2 weeks, but doesn't the urge become greater than the wish to buy stuff off your wish list?

I tried this but none of the tools I bought could get my nuts off like a good hooker.

 

[xtc27]

I tried this but none of the tools I bought could get my nuts off like a good hooker.

...or even a bad hooker... Bad hooker! Bad! Go 2 yr rm! No wait, go2 my rm!