Chat 'Breaking up' with a fave is hard to do...

[Deleted member 79939]

I've lived with a few "adult entertainment workers" as companions in serious loving relationships and have absolutely no regrets, they were mentally stable (for the most part), no real abuse or "daddy" issues but wanted more than be a member of the rat race. I was the same which probably made us a good fit. They are needy in certain areas at times and you need to respect that and be mindful of what they need during those times. You also have to be confident with your own sexuality to keep your footing stable. Was a bit of a balancing act at first but once you figure it out it becomes second nature. Even though we have moved on, we are still very close and stay in touch. Crazy of course by most standards but my standards are a little different than most.

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[Deleted member 79939]

You will be surprised.

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What ?

 

[Deleted member 79939]

So who is doing drugs
I am not
Are u ?
Are they ?
Who ?

 

[Toomanymiles]

I've lived with a few "adult entertainment workers" as companions in serious loving relationships and have absolutely no regrets, they were mentally stable (for the most part), no real abuse or "daddy" issues but wanted more than be a member of the rat race. I was the same which probably made us a good fit. They are needy in certain areas at times and you need to respect that and be mindful of what they need during those times. You also have to be confident with your own sexuality to keep your footing stable. Was a bit of a balancing act at first but once you figure it out it becomes second nature. Even though we have moved on, we are still very close and stay in touch. Crazy of course by most standards but my standards are a little different than most.

that’s good for you man. Your standards are different. I Would look at an mpa like a Ball player off the bench. Your starters get the most minutes but their are needed to get some quick scoring when shit gets stagnant, starters get tired or you need a different look. See a civilian will find that analogy misogynistic but given that a hoe has more than likely been gorilla pimped- they may find that charming. And that’s shit is kinda cool to me.

 

[OG_funguy]

that’s good for you man. I do assume they are just regular women. Just wired differently esp when it comes to sex and relationships. Like you really gotta put on your whore thinking cap to understand their logic.

I can't speak to the premier girls or the holistic MPAs that get paid for FS but there are many 'normal' ladies that work at semi legits (which is where I frequent). Many are single moms and aside from doing this type of work, are actually quite responsible.

 

[big.sleeze]

What kind of drugs ?????
So all of them are Doing drugs ????
Really ???!
Wtf

These bitches love their snow

 

[Toomanymiles]

I can't speak to the premier girls or the holistic MPAs that get paid for FS but there are many 'normal' ladies that work at semi legits (which is where I frequent). Many are single moms and aside from doing this type of work, are actually quite responsible.

I edited my post.- tried to be a bit more funny and sarcastic

 

[imthedude]

I ain’t goin nowhere my nigga. Chalk outline lmao noone gonna take me down

Yeah; you're right. More likely you'll bottom out and either off yourself or find yourself in Tyrone's stable.

 

[BmH6769]

I think if you bringaho to a restaurant you would not be concerned who she banged there or you wouldn't have brought her there, whats the big deal any way, you bang chicks, she bangs dudes , as long as everyones happy its all good.

I like your “ALWAYS BE READY TO WALK”

 

[dirtyoldman]

A hoe is a hoe. Don’t think of them as anything more. Use them for sex and thats it. Never catch feels. Thats the hole point of paying these bitches. They’re worthless whores who’s only value is their looks and their pussy. They will never make good gf material... They all have emotional or daddy issues, and most have drug problems. Every bitch I met at the spa is fucked in the head one way or another. You want to find a gf? Try tinder

mpa she love only your money money that's it.

 

[dirtyoldman]

This nigga has the right idea

Only a simp catches feels for a whore. Yes, all of them are horrible individuals. Would you ever date a girl who works or worked as a whore? If you would then you’re just a dumb mf. Anytime you go somewhere with the bitch, take a look around and know that any dude in the vicinity could have been fucking your girl just last night

its true

 

[xtc27]

Drug use almost non-existent at the semi legit AMPs...

Almost

 

[xtc27]

I wasn't sure whether to post this or not but decided to do it in hopes of hearing from others that may have had similar experiences (a form of therapy I guess).

Anyways, I've been feeling down these days and it's because I've recently parted ways with one of my faves. I see lots of MPAs but my faves are special to me because there is a strong emotional connection, in addition to the physical attraction. I haven't posted about my faves in a long time because I've come to realize that most guys have a certain view of MPAs based on their own experiences and often extend that view to 'all' MPAs. I can understand this but have seen enough MPAs to know they aren't all the same.

The fave I'm referring to here is honestly the best MPA I have ever met and I don't say this lightly. If she opens her heart to you, there's nothing she won't do for you. I have known her for a couple of years but in the last year or so we got really close. I have seen her outside the spa countless times doing stuff that normal couples would do.

As we got closer, she started to ask questions about our "relationship". As much as I liked her, I knew a BF/GF relationship was not in the cards so I answered as honestly as I could. Little did I know, she was actually testing me. Well, I failed the test and it opened the door to another guy. I have known about him for a long time and knew she had feelings for him too but it never really bothered me before. For whatever reason, it bothers me now. We got in a fight and long story short, I told her I would not see her again. She still cares for me a lot and doesn't want us to "break up" but there's too much emotions going on now.

For anyone thinking of getting really close to an MPA, just think long and hard about it first. The rewards are great, I can't deny that. But there will always be someone that comes along that's more charming, better looking, more successful, more devoted...you get the idea. If you are the jealous type, don't even bother.


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...thx 4 sharing. Didn’t go so far as u... but being able 2c & connect w that other human being... lotsa fun. Priceless. Painful, 2... just like being alive.

... those texts, holy frigg, man... kinda heartbreaking.

...many hobbyists looking down on mpas... but they fuck allota girls 2... don’t c moral difference...

...when u have several faves... it’s really kinda weird how normal it feels...

...I’ve lost a few... my heart leaps when they attempt 2 contact me... but I don’t let it show...

...Sh!ttiest part 4 me.... it friggn hurts, & nobody in the world I can tell... mebbe should get therapist like Tony Soprano...

...even bros here mock u... way 2go, losers...

... but New Girl therapy = very helpful, esp the penis- tonsil msg... oh yeah, u do semi-legits, damn....

...what2 say, what2say...

Chin up, lad!

 

[curvluvr]

Sorry to hear about that. That's tough, no matter what. If you had a connection, but need to break it off, it sounds like you did the right thing. The BF/GF thing with an MPA is so complicated, and has been discussed here many times.
Hopefully that void will be filled soon, perhaps with another fav!

 

[ppc]

I wasn't sure whether to post this or not but decided to do it in hopes of hearing from others that may have had similar experiences (a form of therapy I guess).

Anyways, I've been feeling down these days and it's because I've recently parted ways with one of my faves. I see lots of MPAs but my faves are special to me because there is a strong emotional connection, in addition to the physical attraction. I haven't posted about my faves in a long time because I've come to realize that most guys have a certain view of MPAs based on their own experiences and often extend that view to 'all' MPAs. I can understand this but have seen enough MPAs to know they aren't all the same.

The fave I'm referring to here is honestly the best MPA I have ever met and I don't say this lightly. If she opens her heart to you, there's nothing she won't do for you. I have known her for a couple of years but in the last year or so we got really close. I have seen her outside the spa countless times doing stuff that normal couples would do.

As we got closer, she started to ask questions about our "relationship". As much as I liked her, I knew a BF/GF relationship was not in the cards so I answered as honestly as I could. Little did I know, she was actually testing me. Well, I failed the test and it opened the door to another guy. I have known about him for a long time and knew she had feelings for him too but it never really bothered me before. For whatever reason, it bothers me now. We got in a fight and long story short, I told her I would not see her again. She still cares for me a lot and doesn't want us to "break up" but there's too much emotions going on now.

For anyone thinking of getting really close to an MPA, just think long and hard about it first. The rewards are great, I can't deny that. But there will always be someone that comes along that's more charming, better looking, more successful, more devoted...you get the idea. If you are the jealous type, don't even bother.


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Did the other guy becomes your fav bf now? Don’t worry la ? You can find another fav so easy and the forest is big . Just wish the other guy can fill your shoe.

 

[goodtogo1962]

Ki funguy.

I have a favorite who I have been seeing for over 12 years. She is fun very engaging and always happy to see me. I am there to have fun and she always delivers. She often wants to talk about her personal life and other men. I know she is baiting me but I play it cool. I like her and only hope the best for her but that is where it ends.

I have thought about this often but know where it ends. Best to leave it alone, plus I want to continue seeing her. Even during the pandemic I would see her, she would arrange everything. Just keep it simple.

 

[bluejay89]

The way to understand you is thinking the same way as a polygamic. Except that Polygamic people are actually in real relationships.
You and your faves have the need to get emotionally involve even sometimes knowing both have a real relationship.
There is really something missing for it to trigger that "special connection" like money, company , lifestyle, love ones, sex, etc.

Let's not forget they are giving hj for a reason and that reason is not you

 

[xtc27]

The way to understand you is thinking the same way as a polygamic. Except that Polygamic people are actually in real relationships.
You and your faves have the need to get emotionally involve even sometimes knowing both have a real relationship.
There is really something missing for it to trigger that "special connection" like money, company , lifestyle, love ones, sex, etc.

Let's not forget they are giving hj for a reason and that reason is not you

I don't think u=right...

After that much stuff 2gether, pretty sure sex = about connection as much as $$$...

I've had faves lose other appmnts 2b w me, reschedule apptmnts 2 spend more time together... & buy me dinner... not cos me=handsome or rich... just about our connection, how I make her feel...

...& kl is deeper in2 it then me...

... & I barely think of them outside spa, unless I schedule it... Im really kinda bad guy....

... not like kl or @Caliguy...

 

[Toomanymiles]

The way to understand you is thinking the same way as a polygamic. Except that Polygamic people are actually in real relationships.
You and your faves have the need to get emotionally involve even sometimes knowing both have a real relationship.
There is really something missing for it to trigger that "special connection" like money, company , lifestyle, love ones, sex, etc.

Let's not forget they are giving hj for a reason and that reason is not you

goodpoint. Polygamy and hoeing is not the same. After reading the texts I’m not sure kl actually had a real relationship with her. Seemed like they were friends that hung out and was wondering if they were actually anything. Seems like she pulled away when he wanted to get more serious.

I you going to date an mpa you should probably be seeing other people. Nothing keeps a woman in check knowing that you are desired by others. Doesn’t work the other way around though, like the more I think about how much dick she sucked I instantly get turned off especially considering she is likely repulsed by said clients.

 

[OG_funguy]

I don't think u=right...

After that much stuff 2gether, pretty sure sex = about connection as much as $$$...

I've had faves lose other appmnts 2b w me, reschedule apptmnts 2 spend more time together... & buy me dinner... not cos me=handsome or rich... just about our connection, how I make her feel...

...& kl is deeper in2 it then me...

... & I barely think of them outside spa, unless I schedule it... Im really kinda bad guy....

... not like kl or @Caliguy...

You get it but many guys don't. That's why I said in my first post that I seldomly post about my faves anymore. Yes, they have a job to do but that doesn't change anything in terms of how they feel. I have two faves that are retired from spa life yet I continue to see them...no payment or anything, just people that genuinely enjoy each other's company.