First Time

[Tixeros]

So rn we can’t go anywhere but I was wondering for my first time ever doing this where would be the best place to go in the city? I’m happy I found this lil community and excited for when this fucking lockdown is over, also can anyone let me know if I have to bring anything with me other than cash and how much it would usually cost thanks in advance !

 

[Kurapika]

You'll get no shortage of answers here is my guess, and everyone has their own agenda for the answer they'll give you.
My advice is that you bring your "smart head" and your "Confident self." and if it's your first time especially probably don't walk in with less then 200-300 bucks my dude.
People will tell you this, and that about price, but what's important is probably finding someone who is around your age, and not ugly, the rest of it should happen on it's own.
If you're going to 'pay to win' make sure you have the pay, so you can win lol.
Don't forget a condom either, even if you're not planning on going that far a condom would allow you to do whatever you want without the risk of getting a life long STI.
They usually don't care about you, and only care about getting through the session too, these are people that sometimes bang out multiple guys a day so for them it's just a transaction that lasts only a short time where as with you it's:
Your money, and a long term specific memory that you'll be carrying for the rest of your life.
Choose wisely on your own, and when you walk into certain places make it clear you would like someone at least close to your age is my rule of thumb (If you don't see anyone you're attracted to)
There are also people here that would intentionally steer you wrong, not everyone on this board is nice my dude. Not even close lmao.
The best thing to do is manually walk into spots on your own and let your eyes do the choosing, and if they are unwilling to communicate with you, it usually means they have nothing good to offer.
At the very least it's important to be treated as a human, a lot of places will treat you less then human, you're just a wallet to be pillaged for what's in it at most places.
So make sure you're horny enough to get past this shallowness, because if you're not you'll end up wasting money.
One thing that helped me get past that sticking point is the fact that I work hard for my money, and they charge what most men would make in an 8 hour shift for 1-1/half hours of their time, and then it's "goodbye."

 

[Back in Toronto]

So rn we can’t go anywhere but I was wondering for my first time ever doing this where would be the best place to go in the city? I’m happy I found this lil community and excited for when this fucking lockdown is over, also can anyone let me know if I have to bring anything with me other than cash and how much it would usually cost thanks in advance !

Look under 'reviews' and check out one that has multiple positive reviewers. Then you can see what you want. A MPA for massage and handjob is different from one that will give bbbj, fs, and the various types of body part slides.

And keep your budget in mind. If you get hooked on a MPA, you might want to go weekly, couple times a week etc. So pick something in your budget.

And don't forget, your MPA is doing a job, she doesn't love you, isn't horny for you, doesn't want it bad...she wants your cash.

 

[Deleted member 86776]

Some good advice so far.

If you're going to dabble in this highly addictive hobby you owe it to yourself to learn about STIs. Condoms won't protect against them all, and you should know there's risk involved, especially if you have an SO or actively dating.

Take everything you read here with a grain of salt too. Some strange egos running around unchecked on this board.

 

[Kurapika]

^^^^"Take everything you read here with a grain of salt. Some strange egos running around unchecked on this board."^^^^
^ This is exactly why I don't share anymore, there's people that I just watch post over and over and wonder how the mods don't mod, i guess they think it's funny or something? I think it's Predatory, and hobby ruining.
Imagine liking an MPA enough to recommend her, but not enough to feel 'attached', and then someone you hate / is arrogant in every way fucks the MPA you like and then comes back to brag about it in a negging fashion like they do when they actually get it? LMAO
That's the definition of self-cucking, and you're probably subjecting a girl you like to an extra special form of hell when she's easily capable of raking in her own clients because she has "the goods" already.
Honestly, if you actually find a girl you like probably SHUT UP about it, and keep her to 'yourself' chances are at least 5 other dudes are fucking her, so why be it someone you potentially know is a piece of shit?
There's another piece of advice, people here want you to show and tell so they can judge your shit, fuck your girl, and give back only insults / skepticism

 

[Tixeros]

All right thanks for the advice I kinda knew some of these things jsut from reading over some of the other threads but I learned stuff aswell, just wanted to get an idea of what I could expect in the future after Doug’s communist regime of keeping us inside is over